Paradigms and Principles
Chapter summary from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey.
Covey opens by separating two kinds of advice: the personality ethic that's dominated bookshelves since the 1920s, focused on techniques for getting people to do what you want, and the older character ethic that focuses on the principles a life is built on. The argument is that personality without character collapses under stress, and the 7 habits are designed to build character in a specific sequence.
The framing concept is paradigms — the mental maps we use to interpret what's happening. Most of us never examine the map; we just navigate by it. When the map is inaccurate, every choice we make from it is partially off. Personal effectiveness starts not with new techniques but with seeing the map you're using and asking whether it matches the territory.
The 7 habits proceed in three movements: private victory (habits 1-3, the work on yourself), public victory (habits 4-6, the work with others), and renewal (habit 7, the work of sustaining the first six).
The order matters. Each habit assumes the previous habits are in place. Skipping ahead to interpersonal effectiveness without the inner work produces technique without integrity.
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