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by Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga

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  1. The young man's claim: people are not free, because their lives are shaped by trauma, by upbringing, by circumstance.

  2. People he knows are crippled by genuine trauma — abuse, loss, illness — and to say they "choose" their suffering is cruel.

  3. The second night opens with one of Adler's most provocative claims: every problem a person has is a relationship problem.

  4. The third night introduces the concept the book is most famous for: separation of tasks.

  5. Adler's psychology, the philosopher reminds the young man, is not an individualism.

  6. The fifth and final night condenses the book's argument into a single practical question: how do you live now?

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