{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"Book","@id":"https://readstacks.com/books/never-split-the-difference/","url":"https://readstacks.com/books/never-split-the-difference/","name":"Never Split the Difference","shortTitle":"Never Split the Difference","author":{"@type":"Person","name":"Chris Voss"},"isbn":"9780062407801","numberOfPages":15,"wordCount":5773,"timeRequired":"PT23M","datePublished":"2025-12-19T10:35:13Z","dateModified":"2025-12-22T22:17:52Z","publisher":{"@id":"https://readstacks.com/#organization","@type":"Organization","name":"Read Stacks"},"workExample":[{"@type":"Chapter","@id":"https://readstacks.com/books/never-split-the-difference/introduction-never-split-the-difference/","url":"https://readstacks.com/books/never-split-the-difference/introduction-never-split-the-difference/","name":"Never Split the Difference","wordCount":461,"timeRequired":"PT2M","abstract":"Negotiation isn’t a special event. It’s the daily act of trying to change what someone will do—while they’re trying to change you. The premise is blunt: “split the difference” often feels fair, but it can be a lazy ending that produces two unhappy people and a weak agreement.","datePublished":"2025-12-19T10:36:56Z","dateModified":"2025-12-19T10:36:56Z"},{"@type":"Chapter","@id":"https://readstacks.com/books/never-split-the-difference/chapter-1-the-new-rules-how-to-become-the-smartest-personin-any-room/","url":"https://readstacks.com/books/never-split-the-difference/chapter-1-the-new-rules-how-to-become-the-smartest-personin-any-room/","name":"The New Rules: How to Become the Smartest Person…in Any Room","position":1,"wordCount":450,"timeRequired":"PT2M","abstract":"In a tense conversation, the advantage rarely belongs to the person who talks fastest. It belongs to the person who stays calm long enough to think. 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